How do you deal with parents who compare you to your siblings?

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   I finally said "that comparison really hurts" in a calm moment. They genuinely hadn't noticed how often they did it.

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2. Remember it says more about their worries than about you.

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3. Change the subject every time. It sounds simple, but they eventually stopped when it never went anywhere.

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